ittsallhappening:

sometimes it’s hard to be friends with your exes. when they’re telling you their version of perfect, and everything they want in a girl, you just kinda sit back and realize…you were none of those things……almost like they want the complete opposite of you. idk…i always find a way to bring myself down

but i mean, if they’re your ex, then obviously neither of you were right for each other. if you had been, you’d still be together. it’s okay that you’re not his idea of perfect, and honestly you probably have shaped his idea of perfect and maybe there are some things he wants in a girl that he maybe only realizes he wants because he didn’t have them in you. by virtue of being your ex, it’s okay.

just because he doesn’t think you’re perfect doesn’t mean you aren’t.